When you sense discomfort, it is a sign that you are withholding love from yourself and the other person.
Grow bigger. Open your heart and send love to the other person. When you give so freely,you also tend to give love to yourself.
Everything falls into context. You become yourself, you see the other as being themselves. It's easy to feel, to give love. And then you feel the connect come back - like electricity.
And all's well between you all. You and yourself. You and the other. You and the world.