Monday, February 9, 2026

Thought for the Day - Dealing With Our Pain

Quite clearly we are the ones who are creating pain for ourselves - by giving others too much importance and control over us with their words and actions. Can we ignore them and move on, happily? Yes we can. But we choose to suffer, bound by their words and actions. 
So, we are the ones who are are creating the pain so we are the ones who can rid ourselves of our pain as well. When there's pain, look within. And drop it. 
Find something more interesting to do. Nobody's watching you suffer and nobody's interested either.

Sunday, February 8, 2026

Hyderabad by Walk - Golconda Remains

Deccan Archives announced this walk on their website so I decided to go. I don't think I'll ever have enough of Golconda so I took off in Carlos at 715 to get there by 8. I parked near the fort and walked to Fateh Darwaza.
Fateh Darwaza - Machilipatnam Darwaza  

Gajnarsimha from Kakatiyas

Interestingly a large group joined up today - close to 30 they said. Sibgat gave an intro in the little cricket ground which is probably the only one to have two cannons in it.

Kota Maisamma temple - guardian goddess of the fort

 The idea was to climb up the Fateh Darwaza which is a bit dicey because there were so many of us. 
The newer cannon 

Our group standing precariously on one side of the Fateh darwaza

Up there we saw the motifs of Gajnarasimha which were part of Kakatiya lore, another of a fish with three bodies, an old Kota Maisamma temple, couple of cannons - one Qutb Shahi era over and another newer (green).


Then we slowly climbed down and saw a plaque which named the person who built the shops on Bada Bazaar. This street was the one where diamonds were heaped - the diamond market of Golconda. Parts of it can still be seen.
Fish head with three bodies

Diamond market

 Then we passed Shamsheer Kothi or something like that.
 
The plaque

Shamsheer Kothi

On to the place called Khazana where we saw a well kept Yali, some Telugu and Urdu inscriptions, hero stones with self sacrifice depicted. 

Yali
Mahavira statue found near Patancheru

And then onwards to the Habishi Gates near the fort - Habishi for Abissinian with very intricate designs that we do not notice unless we zoom in.
Self sacrifice 

Habishi gate

It was a long walk in terms of time and energy and I headed back with my young pal who has an incredible knowledge of cricket history, more so Hyderabad cricket history. Caught a late breakfast with Ehtesham at Taj and headed home. Good fun.

Saturday, February 7, 2026

Hyderabad by Walk - Churches in Secunderabad

Tops aka Sunil Jyoti and I have been planning a walk in Secunderabad where he said he would show me some nice old churches. It finally materialised today and I set off at dawn to meet him at his house in Marredpally. Tops was walking his dog Rossi and was followed by a posse of dogs he has adopted - he does that on a regular basis - rescues dogs. Anyway, off we went to St John's Church near Sangeet theatre (no more of course) which was our first stop. It was shut as expected at 645 am so we got a couple of pictures and walked towards St An's High School. The traffic and noise was crazy though surprisingly at that early hour.

St John's Church

Me and the chuch

We walked to St Ann's High School and peeped into the grounds. Its such a beautiful school and Tops sisters studied here he said. One building was the boarding school earlier, now converted into classes. You could see the old arches of a bygone era. St. Ann's was established in 1871.


Then we walked around St. Ann's HS and into the St. Mary's Basilica behind St Ann's High School

St Mary's Basilica

Then, across the road and into the Centenary Baptist Church (1875) where some women's conference was going on. We walked in and were told that the old church was by the side and not in the main building. 
Me checking out the main building

Old church

Then, we walked a bit more and came upon the Wesley Church (1911), a little further down the road. 
Wesley Church (1911)

A short walk down and we end up at the road that meets the Secunderabad Clock Tower. There was this huge labour market theere. We walked past and made a pit stop at the legendary Hotel Rio where we had a lukmi and chai. Naresh Sharma my old pal from my cricketing days was there and we caught up for a bit.

Me near Rio
Now Rio operates in a 150 sft type of an area and is clean and organised despite the huge crowd there (always). It has a small menu which it specialises in and everyone vouches for its lukmi and samosa and chai!


We walked back past Garden Restaurant and past the Millenium Methodist Church (new but still a church)


Back past Sangeet (always) to the car and we drove on to the magnificent All Saints Church in the army area. 

All Saints Church

Another view



A short drive and we arrived at the Garrison Wesley Church, 1881, near Lal Bazaar



Then an ancient Wesleyan cemetery with graves of British soldiers aged 22, 23, 24 and many newer ones too. We saw a couple of German Shepherds and a Great Dane which seemed to be the watchmen's pets. Crazy!

Wesleyan Cemetery


Another old church, the Holy Trinity Church near Bollarum

The Holy Trinity Church, Bollarum


Tops and a canine friend

That was a nice walk-drive and Tops was more than happy to show me around. We stopped for breakfast and coffee at Udipi Upahar and ended a fine morning. It was nice catching up as well. Thanks a ton Tops. Until the next one.




Friday, February 6, 2026

Breath - James Nestor

The tag line - 'The New Science of a Lost Art'. Starts with Nestor in bad health with pneumonia, wheezing and in a rut mentally, physically and otherwise, joins a breathing class where he is taught Sudarshana Kriya and something happens. He sweats when its cold and goes home and sleeps well with no tension. He then devotes his time to figure how conscious breathing can change the way we breathe to reduce or reverse conditions like asthma, anxiety, ADHD, psoriasis etc. He says the average human breathes 3.3 seconds inhale and 3.3. seconds exhale. If we can do 5.5 seconds inhale and 5.5 seconds exhale, even for a short period in the day, it will have many benefits according to him.


He undergoes several tests with Dr Jayakar Nayak who is a surgeon as Stanford and along with co-researcher and fellow breath expert Anders Olsson from Stockholm, gets into 10 days of forced mouth breathing. Everything is the same - diet, exercise - and its broken into two phases - one for mouth breathing and the second where they breathe through their noses and do some breathing techniques. Breathing through the mouth had bad effects - snoring increased by 1300% up to 75 minutes at night, the blood pressure shot up, felt awful. On the other hand nose breathing cut exertion and increases endurance. Nestor explains that snoring, sleep apnea (which is caused by inflammation in the throat and polyps) are caused by nasal obstructions. Breathing also is linked to erectile dysfunction.

The body's energy comes from food (anaerobic) and air (aerobic). Mouth breathing changes physical body and transforms airways. Nestor tried nose breathing by taping his mouth. The right nostril feeds blood to the left side of the brain (deals with logic, language, computing), while the left nostril feeds blood to the right side of the brain (creativity, mental abstractions, negative emotions). He finds the yogic method of nadi shodhana a good way to balance the mind and boost production of nitric oxide. Once he taped his mouth he discovered that sleep apnea reduced from 53 to zero, and went from snoring half the night to not snoring.

Check out the Tibetan Five Rites which are stretches. The Tibetans have used stretching, back bending, neck bending and twirling to prolong health and life as explained dn Kelder's book 'The Eye of Revelation'. The end line - the greatest indicator of life span is lung capacity and it can be increased by the transformative power of full exhalations.

The case of breathing slow comes up - the body needs more CO2 because oxygen is steady whether you breathe twenty of five breaths a minute. Having more carbon dioxide is helpful he says. So slow breathing at the rate of 5.5 second exhale and 5.5 second inhale is most beneficial. He also figures that the recitation of prayer mantra Om Mani Padme Hum is set to exactly that pattern which is the same as the rosary. 5-10 minutes a day of this breathing pattern will have much effect.

Like we overeat we over breathe. Breathing less has many benefits and increases endurance. So breathe in 3 secs and exhale 4, then 5, then 6 past the point of discomfort. Like BKS Iyengar once said 'The yogi's life is not measured by days but by breaths'. Soft chewing has affected out breathing so eat foods that make you chew. Also sit straight, inhale through the nose deep into the belly. The more we do this the more we grow stem cells, bone density, growth.

Netsor talks of Tummo breathing or Inner Fire breathing which has many health benefits and makes the body go through extreme heat or cold comfortably. He also gives the example of Swami Rama who stopped his heart rate to zero and told the audience that one can practice by harmonising their breath (remove the pause between the inhale and exhale, then lengthen the breaths). He gives another practice - lie down, take a brief inhale or 3 seconds and exhale in 6 seconds, increase inhale to 4 second and exhale to 8 seconds. If you can reach a count of 30 counts on exhale or half a minute, toxins will leave the body and one becomes disease free.

Nestor meets another Brazilian yoga expert De Rose where he learns that its all about energy, prana. Tey concepts then are to shut your mouth (no mouth breathing), breathe through your nose, exhale more, chew, breathe more and hold your breath.

Nestor explores and advocates many breathing techniques such as Pranayama, Buteyko, Coherent breathing, Hypoventilation, Breathing Coordination, Holotropic Breathwork, Adhama Madhyama Uttama, Tummo breathing, Sudarshana Kriya and so on. 

Very interesting book and its supposed to have many health benefits. Definitely to try out what I can. Thanks Abhinay.. Loved this book. You perhaps added some health to my life thanks to this book.   

    

Tuesday, February 3, 2026

Thought for the Day - When There is no Right or Wrong, There are no Victims

This pertains to the victim mindset which comes from this concept of being 'right' and more importantly, making the other 'wrong'. 
When we understand there is no Right or Wrong - and everyone is right in their own way we can get out of the victim mindset.

When we get out of the victim mindset we free ourselves. Until then we depend on the other to make us 'right'.

When we are not stuck in being 'wronged' we are free to live our life on our terms. To be 'right' as we are and act accordingly.

Dropping the victim mindset is the route to complete freedom.

Monday, February 2, 2026

Mony and Keerti meet Cdr Hemanth Kumar on the Kaundinya

When I heard that Hemanth was heading to Oman on the stitched ship project, I told Mony who lives in Muscat that he could probably meet if time permits. Turns out that not only did they meet, but they also had a meal together and even better, Hemanth invited both of them to see the ship. It must have been one hell of a great experience to be aboard the historic ship.

Mony shared a few pics. Obviously they were thrilled.

Kaundinya - Mony, Hemanth and Keerthi
   

Hemanth gifting Mony a copy of his book on Baig sir

A yali like figure on the ship's mast

Keerthi and Hemanth on board the ship

Lovely pics. Hope to get on the ship sometime!


Thursday, January 29, 2026

A Very Interesting TED Talk - Anders Olson on Breathing

 'Change Your Breath, Change Your Life' 

Really interesting stuff!