Tuesday, February 10, 2026

Anjali - A Prefect!

This is an old blog, a few years ago...
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I could see from the smile on her face when she got off the school van that something had happened. Then she shyly pointed to the badge on her shirt. 'Prefect' it said. I made a song and dance about it but she was like - no big deal, almost everyone in 6th and 7th are Prefects.


So what?

After a short and uncomfortable stint as class monitor in class IV and then classs VI where the unruly Lloyd and his pals ended all further dreams of monitoring the class, I never was in for leadership positions until I led college, University and club side. So I have great respect for Prefects.


Thought for the Day - Perfection is the enemy of Self-Esteem

We are never perfect, so we will never be enough.

When we are never enough in our eyes, our self-esteem falls.



The idea is to know that we are always striving for something greater, something closer to perfection and in that, we are perfect as we are.

Keep self-esteem high!

Monday, February 9, 2026

Anjali - Miranda House Wins Second Prize

So the Miranda House Western Music Society of which A is now a member, won the second prize at the St Stephen's music festival. Here's a video of their Acapella group in action. 



Thought for the Day - Dealing With Our Pain

Quite clearly we are the ones who are creating pain for ourselves - by giving others too much importance and control over us with their words and actions. Can we ignore them and move on, happily? Yes we can. But we choose to suffer, bound by their words and actions. 

So, we are the ones who are are creating the pain so we are the ones who can rid ourselves of our pain as well. When there's pain, look within. And drop it. 

Find something more interesting to do. Nobody's watching you suffer and nobody's interested either.

Sunday, February 8, 2026

Hyderabad by Walk - Golconda Remains

Deccan Archives announced this walk on their website so I decided to go. I don't think I'll ever have enough of Golconda so I took off in Carlos at 715 to get there by 8. I parked near the fort and walked to Fateh Darwaza.
Fateh Darwaza - Machilipatnam Darwaza  

Gajnarsimha from Kakatiyas

Interestingly a large group joined up today - close to 30 they said. Sibgat gave an intro in the little cricket ground which is probably the only one to have two cannons in it.



The idea was to climb up the Fateh Darwaza which is a bit dicey because there were so many of us. 


Up there we saw the motifs of Gajnarasimha which were part of Kakatiya lore, another of a fish with three bodies, an old Kota Maisamma temple, couple of cannons - one Qutb Shahi era over and another newer (green).


Then we slowly climbed down and saw a plaque which named the person who built the shops on Bada Bazaar. This street was the one where diamonds were heaped - the diamond market of Golconda. Parts of it can still be seen.
Fish head with three bodies

Diamond market

 Then we passed Shamsheer Kothi or something like that.
 
The plaque

Shamsheer Kothi - Manjit watching me

On to the place called Khazana where we saw a well kept Yali, some Telugu and Urdu inscriptions, hero stones with self sacrifice depicted. 

Yali from the side

Mahavira statue found near Patancheru



And then onwards to the Habshi Gates near the fort - Habshi for Abissinian with very intricate designs that we do not notice unless we zoom in.


Self sacrifice 

Habshi gate

Detailed inscriptions

It was a long walk in terms of time and energy and I headed back with my young pal who has an incredible knowledge of cricket history, more so Hyderabad cricket history. Caught a late breakfast with Ehtesham at Taj and headed home. Good fun.

Saturday, February 7, 2026

Hyderabad by Walk - Churches in Secunderabad

Tops aka Sunil Jyoti and I have been planning a walk in Secunderabad where he said he would show me some nice old churches. It finally materialised today and I set off at dawn to meet him at his house in Marredpally. Tops was walking his dog Rossi and was followed by a posse of dogs he has adopted - he does that on a regular basis - rescues dogs. Anyway, off we went to St John's Church near Sangeet theatre (no more of course) which was our first stop. It was shut as expected at 645 am so we got a couple of pictures and walked towards St An's High School. The traffic and noise was crazy though surprisingly at that early hour.

St John's Church

Me and the chuch

We walked to St Ann's High School and peeped into the grounds. Its such a beautiful school and Tops sisters studied here he said. One building was the boarding school earlier, now converted into classes. You could see the old arches of a bygone era. St. Ann's was established in 1871.


Then we walked around St. Ann's HS and into the St. Mary's Basilica behind St Ann's High School

St Mary's Basilica

Then, across the road and into the Centenary Baptist Church (1875) where some women's conference was going on. We walked in and were told that the old church was by the side and not in the main building. 
Me checking out the main building

Old church

Then, we walked a bit more and came upon the Wesley Church (1911), a little further down the road. 
Wesley Church (1911)

A short walk down and we end up at the road that meets the Secunderabad Clock Tower. There was this huge labour market theere. We walked past and made a pit stop at the legendary Hotel Rio where we had a lukmi and chai. Naresh Sharma my old pal from my cricketing days was there and we caught up for a bit.

Me near Rio
Now Rio operates in a 150 sft type of an area and is clean and organised despite the huge crowd there (always). It has a small menu which it specialises in and everyone vouches for its lukmi and samosa and chai!


We walked back past Garden Restaurant and past the Millenium Methodist Church (new but still a church)


Back past Sangeet (always) to the car and we drove on to the magnificent All Saints Church in the army area. 

All Saints Church

Another view



A short drive and we arrived at the Garrison Wesley Church, 1881, near Lal Bazaar



Then an ancient Wesleyan cemetery with graves of British soldiers aged 22, 23, 24 and many newer ones too. We saw a couple of German Shepherds and a Great Dane which seemed to be the watchmen's pets. Crazy!

Wesleyan Cemetery


Another old church, the Holy Trinity Church near Bollarum

The Holy Trinity Church, Bollarum


Tops and a canine friend

That was a nice walk-drive and Tops was more than happy to show me around. We stopped for breakfast and coffee at Udipi Upahar and ended a fine morning. It was nice catching up as well. Thanks a ton Tops. Until the next one.




Friday, February 6, 2026

Breath - James Nestor

The tag line - 'The New Science of a Lost Art'. Starts with Nestor in bad health with pneumonia, wheezing and in a rut mentally, physically and otherwise, joins a breathing class where he is taught Sudarshana Kriya and something happens. He sweats when its cold and goes home and sleeps well with no tension. He then devotes his time to figure how conscious breathing can change the way we breathe to reduce or reverse conditions like asthma, anxiety, ADHD, psoriasis etc. He says the average human breathes 3.3 seconds inhale and 3.3. seconds exhale. If we can do 5.5 seconds inhale and 5.5 seconds exhale, even for a short period in the day, it will have many benefits according to him.


He undergoes several tests with Dr Jayakar Nayak who is a surgeon as Stanford and along with co-researcher and fellow breath expert Anders Olsson from Stockholm, gets into 10 days of forced mouth breathing. Everything is the same - diet, exercise - and its broken into two phases - one for mouth breathing and the second where they breathe through their noses and do some breathing techniques. Breathing through the mouth had bad effects - snoring increased by 1300% up to 75 minutes at night, the blood pressure shot up, felt awful. On the other hand nose breathing cut exertion and increases endurance. Nestor explains that snoring, sleep apnea (which is caused by inflammation in the throat and polyps) are caused by nasal obstructions. Breathing also is linked to erectile dysfunction.

The body's energy comes from food (anaerobic) and air (aerobic). Mouth breathing changes physical body and transforms airways. Nestor tried nose breathing by taping his mouth. The right nostril feeds blood to the left side of the brain (deals with logic, language, computing), while the left nostril feeds blood to the right side of the brain (creativity, mental abstractions, negative emotions). He finds the yogic method of nadi shodhana a good way to balance the mind and boost production of nitric oxide. Once he taped his mouth he discovered that sleep apnea reduced from 53 to zero, and went from snoring half the night to not snoring.

Check out the Tibetan Five Rites which are stretches. The Tibetans have used stretching, back bending, neck bending and twirling to prolong health and life as explained dn Kelder's book 'The Eye of Revelation'. The end line - the greatest indicator of life span is lung capacity and it can be increased by the transformative power of full exhalations.

The case of breathing slow comes up - the body needs more CO2 because oxygen is steady whether you breathe twenty of five breaths a minute. Having more carbon dioxide is helpful he says. So slow breathing at the rate of 5.5 second exhale and 5.5 second inhale is most beneficial. He also figures that the recitation of prayer mantra Om Mani Padme Hum is set to exactly that pattern which is the same as the rosary. 5-10 minutes a day of this breathing pattern will have much effect.

Like we overeat we over breathe. Breathing less has many benefits and increases endurance. So breathe in 3 secs and exhale 4, then 5, then 6 past the point of discomfort. Like BKS Iyengar once said 'The yogi's life is not measured by days but by breaths'. Soft chewing has affected out breathing so eat foods that make you chew. Also sit straight, inhale through the nose deep into the belly. The more we do this the more we grow stem cells, bone density, growth.

Netsor talks of Tummo breathing or Inner Fire breathing which has many health benefits and makes the body go through extreme heat or cold comfortably. He also gives the example of Swami Rama who stopped his heart rate to zero and told the audience that one can practice by harmonising their breath (remove the pause between the inhale and exhale, then lengthen the breaths). He gives another practice - lie down, take a brief inhale or 3 seconds and exhale in 6 seconds, increase inhale to 4 second and exhale to 8 seconds. If you can reach a count of 30 counts on exhale or half a minute, toxins will leave the body and one becomes disease free.

Nestor meets another Brazilian yoga expert De Rose where he learns that its all about energy, prana. Tey concepts then are to shut your mouth (no mouth breathing), breathe through your nose, exhale more, chew, breathe more and hold your breath.

Nestor explores and advocates many breathing techniques such as Pranayama, Buteyko, Coherent breathing, Hypoventilation, Breathing Coordination, Holotropic Breathwork, Adhama Madhyama Uttama, Tummo breathing, Sudarshana Kriya and so on. 

Very interesting book and its supposed to have many health benefits. Definitely to try out what I can. Thanks Abhinay.. Loved this book. You perhaps added some health to my life thanks to this book.