We create drama by defending ourselves. If we did not defend ourselves there would be nothing to fight.
We defend ourselves because most times we want people to think of us in a certain way. If we give up attachment to what others should think about us, we will have no need for defending and no need for drama.
Stop trying to convince people about how you think you are. What they think is what they think. Trying to be something is actually restricting. Get rid of that and you are free to be whatever you want.
Stop drama. Sop trying to make people believe or think some way about you.
Instead be yourself - not what you think you would like people to think you are.
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