We know how beautiful flow can get in relationships. Everything seems understood, the world looks bright and colourful and everything is perfect. We can be ourselves. In fact, we can be bigger than ourselves. Love rules.
And then this whole flow goes suddenly. A small fight, a word, a gesture and everything collapses around it. Everything is heavy. Nothing flows easy and everyone wants to avoid each other. Anger and fear rule.
Same people, same circumstances. What happened?
To my mind, trust got broken. I don't mean trust as in the foundation of the relationship. When there's trust at a base level you do enjoy that flow once in a while. But what does happen is that we have smaller parcels of trust that are broken and they contribute to the lack of flow.
To regain flow, figure where you have lost trust, and rebuild it. Just that small parcel of trust.
Flow is linked to trust. Lak of flow indicates lack of trust.
To bring back magic into relationships, figure out how to build trust, where we lose trust.
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