Thought for the Day - It is our Putting Ourselves Aside that Bugs Us

 When we are upset with someone else for not doing something for us, it is clearly coming from a place where we feel we have been put aside and that no one is noticing that we have put ourselves aside.

More so ourselves.

It's almost as if we are upset with ourselves for putting ourselves aside and want everyone to recognise that. If we have put ourselves aside for someone else we want them to recognise that. When they do not we get mad - not at themselves - but at ourselves for putting ourselves aside. 

So, if we do not put ourselves aside, we have less chance of getting mad at others.

So, don't put yourself aside. Put yourself in the forefront. You will have nothing to feel bad about.