Thursday, May 7, 2020

The Paradoxes of Life - To Live You Must Die

This is perhaps the greatest paradox of all - to live we must die.

It probably means that the fear of dying is what stops us from living fully. Fear of death can come in many ways and limits us in many ways. Death in this context is also the loss of something - health, money, reputation, image, life itself. When we are afraid to lose, to die, we can never live fully. We live in parts.

The sporting analogy of - you cannot win if you are afraid to lose makes great sense here. Winning they say, or living in this context, is like going into the lion's den and taking the cup. You cannot expect it to come to you. You have to stake it all to get it.

So with life.

Wednesday, May 6, 2020

Kanoon - Movie

1960 courtroom drama starring Ashok Kumar, Rajendra Kumar, Nanda,  Mehmood etc. BR Chopra does a good job and it asks some relevant questions until a rather convenient end is found. Gripping though.

Life in Lockdown - Day 43 of 67 (or more), May 6, 2020

May 6, 2020

It's hot these days.  After watching 'Kanoon' a 1960s BR Chopra classic courtroom drama, I had to wake up early to get books for Anjali from her school, which means this is the first time I have gone past the Maithri Vanam stage in all these days. Fortunately, there were no police barricades and I went through easily but at the Engineer's Colony at Yellareddyguda I found that the colony people had barricaded the colony with some thorny bushes so I had to go around. Anyway, back with the books and Anjali is quite happy to see her new books.
Painting by Sandhya Karthik
The lockdown has now been extended till the 29th of May which is another three weeks away. However, wine shops have opened and kilometre-long queues have sprung up. the general air of panic seems to have reduced as people are moving around more freely. Das sent me a picture today of how, after so many days, the signal at Paradise is working now.

Sandhya Karthik Sent a Few Poems
Sandhya was Anjali's teacher and a very innovative one too who would constantly challenge the children with new ways and methods. i really liked her teaching style which encouraged them to think.

Food Pics
Pavan made biryani, Shameem made Haleem and Sandhya made a date cake.
Chicken biryani - Pavan

Haleem - Shameem

Date cake - Sandhya Karthik

Tuesday, May 5, 2020

The Mango Tree Conspiracies

Our mango tree has become the root of several deep-rooted conspiracies in the neighbourhood. Forst up, our house is the first in our lot. There was no house behind nor was there one beside. They all came over a period of time. Our mango tree grew from 1975 and now goes past the second floor in a straight line and most of it, thanks to our rising house, falls away to the house behind us. They normally take away a good lot of mangoes and we let them.

Now, the interesting thing is that in the house next door lives Ramu, a dhobi cum watchman, hos wife, children and grandchildren. This family is always very concerned at the way people steal mangoes form our tree. Chief among them being the people who live on the first floor of their house. They use a long stick and take away all the mangoes they can. Now, these days we have a more aggressive family behind our house who are continuously stealing mangoes from our tree, blatantly at that.

The other day, Ramu's daughter came and asked if they could pluck some 20 mangoes for avakai pickle. I had no inclination of climbing and plucking the mangoes so i said they could. Her son Rajesh went up, plucked 20 for them, another 70 for us an came down. While he was plucking the fruit the man in the house behind was telling him not to pluck the big ones - so he could steal. The gall!

Then Rajesh and his mother gave us our fruit, took away some from our lot too and made some wonderful avakai for us and gave. We are still enjoying the fruit they gave us - ripe and juicy rasalu.

Yesterday we find a huge commotion behind our house. The family behind has planned a full-scale raid on the tree - tables, chairs, sticks and stuff and are all over the walls, the tree etc though on their side. hen I asked their teenage daughter what they were doing - she said they were plucking mangoes. Just like that. Then her father appeared and said - haha, it's your tree only but we are taking a few from this side. The way the entire family was at it like an organised institution was crazy to watch and though on one hand I don't mind them taking mangoes on that side, this brazen way was a bit too much. It rankled but I let it be.

Today morning Ramu came and with an indignant look told me that three boys from the house behind ours were stealing mangoes. He was so upset. Then I wondered - this illiterate, uneducated bunch had the decency to ask, pluck only 20, do us a favour in return, make pickle etc while the two educated families were brazenly stealing! They could also ask, take a few and give a few and everyone is happy.

So i told Ramu to tell Rajesh his grandson to pluck fruit from our side. Instantly they went into action as if avenging our injustice. Guess what? The guy from the house behind appears and tells him not to pluck the big ones, not to pluck from his side etc. In a tragic manner, his entire family came to to see their bounty disappearing. Rajesh is a touch customer - he climbed on their side and plucked out every fruit and cleaned up the tree. Of course, I did not know what happened until he told me. When they came down at 1 pm, they were drenched in sweat but came with some 100 fruit, 30 of which they kept.

It's amazing. The more educated we are, the less cultured we are. Today, Ramu and his family appear like the most thoughtful, sensitive, just and cultured neighbours we have. I am glad we have them on our side too!

An Interview - By Niveditha Indrajit and Vanathi Amarnath

Niveditha is Anjali's art teacher. She dabbles in many things and does all with great zest and energy - artist, designer, teacher, healer and in this new role of an interviewer. Niveditha is doing a series of interviews during the lockdown days with people who have chosen alternate careers and did one of Shobhs and several other friends. When she asked me if I would do one, I agreed. Vanathi, who enjoys both cricket and writing, asked if she could also join and ask a few questions. Niveditha had no problem. Nor did I.


It was a free-flowing interview with no agenda, no time limit, so I mostly spoke about my journey. Here's the link.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sv9UVIhdNiA&feature=youtu.be

Thanks Niveditha and Vanathi. :)

Life in Lockdown - Day 42 of 54 (or more), May 5, 2020

May 5, 2020

Watched 'Ustad Hotel' last night thanks to HotStar and quite liked it. The day went into some writing work etc. Madhav called from the US, Shameem and Rajan too.

A visit to the local grocer revealed that the general public is chilling off - no masks, no social distance.

Joel Wilson Is the Hero for the Day
Joel Wilson, my old school buddy, on his own, went ahead and shared food with a few migrant workers. Good on you Joel.

Kranthi Shared a Poem
Kranthi shared a couple of poems he had penned.




No food pics today. We did get some more mangoes from our tree though.


Big news of the day is that wine shops opened up and there's a crazy rush to buy stuff.