Thought for the Day - Recreating the Magic

When we miss someone in our life, what do we miss? We miss the things we did together, the way they made you feel, the way you were with them. When the person goes away, we miss these. The laughter, the excitement, the madness, that feeling of understanding and being understood. Waiting for the person who left will not help, so one must find ways to fill that gap and enjoy life as before.

One way to get over the hole in our lives when people move out is to identify what they made you feel, what you did, how you were and then recreate it - with another person or persons or even with oneself. Can I still enjoy a laugh with someone, share a chai with someone, pull someone's leg, share stuff that I leaned or discovered, open myself to someone, make plans, sit quietly, listen to music, watch a film, go for a drive...well I am sure they can all be equally fulfilling with other people, with oneself. It should be as much fun I should think. To be in that state with oneself is ideal, and if we can be as much fun, it will be very easy to attract the right kind of people too. Life goes on as usual - fun, invigorating, learning, sharing, feeling cared, a feeling of belonging.

It's an experiment worth trying no.