This was an interesting thought - when we fully own our space, our thoughts and actions, it is self-love at its best. No other person or perspective can upset us anymore when we own our thoughts and actions.
All that matters is - what do I think and what do I want from this - and every thing falls into perspective. I want something from someone - as simple as going out there and asking instead of getting into a drama about - what will they think, what if they treat us badly, they didn't treat me well last time etc It just becomes a simple case of 'I want this' and I will ask this person. No grudge, no ill feeling. Simple action.
Own your space and things become crystal clear. It brings in self-love and cuts out drama and the control others wield over us.