The byline - 'The Hidden Driver of Excellence' drew me. Goleman, the Emotional Intelligence expert, says that in a world full of distractions we need to sharpen our focus to thrive. We need three types of focus - Inner, Other and Outer - to help us prepare better, recover from setbacks, to have continued attention and to channel positive emotions. One needs self-awareness, empathy to be inner and other focused. Inner focus is about intuition, values. Other focus is about connections.Outer focus is about the larger world.What you focus on grows.
Attention and excellence are linked. Attention can be built by the right practices - meditation and avoiding distractions are two such. With reducing focus thanks to texts, videos, sleep deprivation and addictive behaviors, its harder to be present to oneself and to others.
The enemies of attention are emotional and sensory distractions - emotional distractions (blow ups, worry, distress etc) and sensory (sound, color, taste, smell, touch etc). The more our focus gets disrupted the more we get distracted. The better we focus, stronger our neural lock. We learn best with focused attention. For example deep reading demands sustaining a focused and full absorption in what we do which is called 'flow'.
I liked how he explained the two mental systems of the brain - bottom up and top down. Bottom up system is the part that is intuitive, fast, impulsive, executive, habits and actions and manages the mental module. Its like one exuberant, spontaneous act. Top Down system is slower, effortful, voluntary, self control, new patterns and models. This requires will power and thought-out action. Voluntary attention, intentional choice are top down while reflexive attention, impulse and rote habit are bottom up. (According to Daniel Kahneman - the top down system is a supporting character who behaves like he is the hero.) Much of what Top Down believes it has chosen to focus on is actually dictated bottom up. Since the brain economises on energy, both Bottom Up and Top Down systems share tasks. Leave the job to motor circuitry - don't overthink.
Goleman gives a valuable piece of advise for coaches - don't focus on what NOT to do. The stronger the emotion, the greater our fixation. The idea is that while emotions can drive attention, we can also mange emotions with Top Down system. An active engagement of attention signifies Top Down - mindfulness is Top Down at work.
In an experiment on mind wandering it was found that both brain systems were active. Creative insights flowed best when people had clear goals but also freedom on how to reach them and had protected time to think freely. While activities like exercising, talking and playing require focus, activities like using the Home PC, commuting etc do not require focus. Practice those activities that help focus. Interesting tidbit, we normally tend to think unpleasant thoughts when the mind wanders. Practicing meditation to be here and now is the best focus.
The antidote to attention fatigue is rest. We get a flash of insight when we relax after long hours of work. Do Bottom Up activities - being in nature (not surfing the net) or any such immersive experience when attention is total yet passive. Be fully alive.
Self awareness represents an essential focus. Hear your inner voice. Be aware of your somatic markers, the body tugs. There are two major streams of self awareness - Me (builds narrative about our past and future) and I (brings us into the immediate present).
People who are not "other" focused get exposed in 360 degree evaluations. Self knowledge begins with self revelation. 'We don't know who we are until we hear ourselves speaking the story of our lives to someone we trust.
Attention regulates emotion. Effortful control is focusing at will, ignoring distractions and inhibiting impulses. Will power is important - better the self control, better one succeeds in financial success and health. One must master how to delay gratification.
The empathy triad is - Cognitive empathy (other people's perception - top down), emoitonal empathy (other person feeling - bottom up) and empathic concern (care about people).
The best curators don't just put data in a meaningful context - they know what questions to ask. The best intuition takes huge amounts of data harnessing our life experiences and filter it through the human brain.
The 10000 hours rule - you benefit by adjusting your execution over and over to get close to your goal. Its called deliberate practice. The difference between Amateurs and Experts is that Amateurs become Bottom Up at some point while Experts keep improving through Top Down activities, improving every time.
You need negative focus to survive, positive focus to thrive. Build the triple focus. Schools have introduced concepts such as Breathing Buddies or Stop Light. Mindfulness boosts the classic attention network. Check if you have trouble remembering what someone just told you, have no memory of your morning commute, cannot taste your food, pay attention to phone more than the person you are with,skimming while reading - you need to check yourself.
I put together a bunch of ideas as I read them in the book but the core idea is that we practice focus which is important in this day and age. The book however was not as focused as I would have liked it to be.