Thursday, January 10, 2019

Farmville - A Day out

'Farmville' is a farm on the outskirts of the city. It's basic and good enough for a bunch of cousins to get together and indulge in some bonding. It has a nice pool (apparently), a cricket pitch (played some), a small orchard growing guavas, and a place to light a bonfire which helped to complement the December cold.
Cricket!

To the left, the owner Virender, an IT professional in his 30s, was having a couple of Jaipur tents constructed. They look like those war tents we see in movies -  cosy and nice with a small balcony on the outside. To the left of the pool is the way in and behind the cameraman is where the two rooms lie. Each with some ten beds each. It's a good place to eat, drink a lot of crash and wake up.
I tried my hand at bowling flighted off spin.

Satish showing pictures of the baby to a pleased mom
Anjali checking out the poultry

Waiting for something to appear
Guess we were waiting for breakfast or something. Food was served in copious quantities and was reasonably good. Again, don't get your hopes up.
Satish enjoying the bonfire
The winter cold, a bonfire that refused to catch fire, people who refused to sleep. Finally, the bonfire gave up and by the time it started crackling, the people gave in.
Group pic
That ended a rather interesting outing. The tents look interesting though. 

Tuesday, January 8, 2019

Cyrano de Bergerac - Edmond Rostand

It is a play written by Edmond Rostand and they say that when the play opened and the curtain fell the audience was applauding for a full hour.

Cyrano de Bergerac is a nobleman who is a good duellist and a wonderful poet. However, he is very conscious of his long nose which he feels makes him unattractive to women. He is in love with Roxane, a distant cousin but does not tell her of his love because he fears rejection because of his long nose. Roxane tells him she is in love with a young soldier Christian, who is rather dumb but good looking. When she tells Cyrano of her love for Christian he decides to help her find happiness by helping Christian. He even puts up with Christian's insults about his nose which he normally takes to heart and duels about.

Roxane, however, loves poetry and wit and Christian cannot offer her that. Cyrano offers to write for him and manages to convince Roxane that Christian writes beautiful poetry. Christian soon realises that Roxane loves the poetry and not him and wants to tell her the truth. When he approaches her with his coarse intelligence, she rejects him and he soon needs Cyrano's help. Meanwhile, Cyrano and Christian are sent to war. Roxane asks Cyrano to protect Christian from harm and makes sure he writes to her every day. Cyrano agrees and writes to her every day. So passionately does he write that Roxane lands up at the warfront. Unfortunately for her, Christian dies in battle. She is left with the last letter he wrote for her (Cyrano wrote for her).

Roxane becomes a nun unable to cope with the loss of her love. It's twenty years gone and Cyrano still comes every week to give her news of the outside world. he has still not told her that it was he who wrote the letters. That it was he whose soul she loved. But one day when he is coming to meet her he is injured by a falling log and as he lies mortally wounded he asks her that he would like to read the last letter Christian wrote. As he reads the letter, Roxane understands that it was Cyrano who wrote those letters, and her doubt is confirmed as Cyrano reads the letter even in the failing light. s Cyrano dies, his friends tells Roxane that Cyrano had loved her with his heart and soul and had not told her because he thought his long nose was not good enough.

Old world romance with all its chivalry, sacrifice and nobility. All three characters never get what they want because they are dogged by their own doubts. For romance, it's superb. One of the best I have read. Thanks Sagar.

Mumbai-Pune-Mumbai - Movie

Loved this 2010 Marathi movie. Showed Pune and all it's iconic landmarks through a day as a Mumbai girl and a Pune boy travel around squabble over which city is greater. The girl is in town to see a prospective groom whom she has already decided to reject. Enjoyed watching.


Monday, January 7, 2019

Workshop 'Visioning, Culture and Goal Setting - Why, What and How' - Infiniti TechLabs

We did a one-day 'Visioning, Culture and Goal Setting Workshop' with Infiniti TechLabs over the weekend. The idea was to bring the top leadership team together and discuss issues like the purpose/ vision (a 20-year horizon), values and gaols over 10, 5 and 2 years. We tried to get some shape to the future by using the collective intelligence available in the group. There were 16 participants  - Gautami, Ajay, Suresh, Santosh, Santosh N, Anand, Neelima, Inder, Shrujit, Raghu, Revanth, Lavish, Rajneesh, Ramesh, Murli and Sunil.
Team Infiniti!
The general idea was to first explore the purpose of the company - what we would like to create over a long time horizon like 20 years? How we would like to impact the world? What we would like to see and say - hey we created this? We took some inspiration from Simon Sinek and understood the importance of purpose to good work and motivation.
Teams in action
Then we looked at the future in three-time horizons - 10, 5 and 2 years - and tried to look at how it would look numbers wise.
Adding my two bits
These were to be aspirational goals and not to be confused with committed goals which the organisation would set otherwise.
A team at work
The team was split into four teams and each presented their numbers and we arrived at a mutually agreed set of numbers for various key parameters.
Cafeteria being used - food for thought!
Then we looked at how we would like to achieve the numbers - the values that are serving us, that we need to drop and that we need to add. Among the many values we wanted to adopt, we chose a few, defined them and looked at the behaviors that we wanted to cultivate as a value and thereon as a culture.
Getting it all together!
The participation was enthusiastic and energetic. It was a good exercise as it always is - good to set  broad contours of the future plan together that we are all part of. Makes everyone feel like they own some stake in the journey.
Final touches - everyone involved fully!
Here's wishing Team Infiniti great success beyond what they imagined.

Column in the Sunday HANS - Happy New Ears!

Sunday, January 6, 2019

Gold - Movie

Lovely movie. Fictionalised account of free India's first hockey gold in the London Olympics beating none other than Britain 4-1. As always sports drama does something to me.

Good work Reema Kagti.

Friday, January 4, 2019

The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership - John C. Maxwell

John Maxwell is an expert on leadership. He is a pastor, founder of four successful companies and author of 22 books.


1. The law of the lid
Leadership ability determines a person's level of effectiveness. The story of how McDonald's was limited by the founders Dick and Mark who grew it till about USD 350000. Ray Kroc bought franchise rights from the brothers for 2.7 million, raised the lid and grew it exponentially explains it well. Clearly leadership ability is the lid on personal and organisational effectiveness.

2. The Law of Influence
The true measure of leadership is influence. Princess Diana, Mother Teresa are examples. If a leader can get people to follow them than you know they really have influence.

3. The Law of Process
Leadership develops daily, not in a day. Read. Practice. Start building from today. Anne Scheiber, when she died at 101, and who lived in a rundown apartment, donated 22 million to the University of New York, her lie savings. If you want to see where someone develops into a champion, look at his daily routine.

4. The Law of Navigation
Anyone can steer the ship, but it takes a leader to chart the course. In the 1911 race to reach the South pole first, two teams set off. Roald Amundsen planned carefully, reached the South Pole one month ahead of the other team, and came back with no losses. The other team led by Robert Falcon Scott, died painful deaths because he did not navigate the expedition to the South Pole well. Anyone can steer the ship says Maxwell, but it takes a leader to chart the course.
Before leaders take their people on a journey, they go through a process in order to give the trip the best chance to being a success.

Maxwell's lines for navigation
Predetermine a course of action
Lay out your goals
Adjust  your priorities
Notify key personnel

Allow time for acceptance
Head into action
Expect problems
Always point to successes
Daily review your plan

5. The Law of E.F. Hutton
When the real leader speaks, people listen. The one to whom people are listening is the leader. In a group, when someone asks a question, who do people watch? Who do they want to hear? The person they look to is the real leader.

6. The Law of Solid Ground
Trust is the foundation of leadership. Don't lose trust. In your history of successes and failures, build a positive balance. Character makes trust possible. And trust makes leadership possible. That is the law of solid ground. Character communicates many things to followers.
Trust is the foundation of leadership. Violate the law of solid ground and you're through as a leader.

7. The Law of Respect
People follow leaders stronger than themselves. Build your strength. Exhibit it. Harriet Tubman, the lady who walked out of slavery and worked with the Underground Railroad, a secret network to free blacks. She freed more than 300 hundred people.

8. The Law of Intuition
Leaders evaluate everything with a leadership bias. Like everything else, intuition can be sharpened. The great ones see things others can't, make moves and move forward before others know what's happening. Intuition helps leaders become readers of the numerous intangibles of leadership.
Leaders read the situation, resources, people, themselves. How you see the world around you is determined by who you are.

9. The Law of Magnetism
Who you are is what you attract - simple. The leader attracts people of like frequency. The better leader you are, the better leaders you will attract.

10. The Law of Connection
Leaders touch a heart before they ask for a hand. Leave an impact, be vulnerable, honest.
On Boss's Day a full-page ad in USA Today paid for by the employees of Southwest Airlines to CEO Herb Kelleher read like this

Thanks Herb
For remembering every one of our names
For supporting the Ronald McDonald house
For helping load baggage on Thanksgiving
For giving everyone a kiss (and we mean everyone)
For listening
For running the only profitable airline
For singing at our holiday party
For singing only once a year
For letting us wear shorts and sneakers to work
For outtalking Sam Donaldson
For riding your Harley Davidson into Southwest HQ
For being a friend, not just a boss
Happy Boss's Day from each one of your 16000 employees

A key to connecting with others is recognising that even in a group, you have to relate to people as individuals. Connect with people one at a time. Don't see a platoon, see 44 individuals.
Maxwell says that when he talks to 60-70000 people, he does not talk to the thousands, h talks to one person.

People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care.

11. The Law of the Inner Circle
A leader's potential is determined by those closest to him. If they are strong then the leader can make a huge impact. If they are not, he can't. Create an inner circle that can take your ideas and run with it thereby increasing your capacity.
Ronald Reagan surrounded himself with good people. Jack Welch personally gave his okay to every general manager - 500 in all.
I liked the poem Maxwell's mother would recite to him about two types of people - those who lift and those who lean. To get to the potential I have not reached, I have to surround myself with the best people possible.

12. The Law of Empowerment
Only secure leaders give power to others. If you do not empower, you do not grow. He gives the example of Henry Ford junior who was known to get rid of strong leaders.
Roosevelt said that the best executive is the one who has sense enough to pick good men to do what he wants done, and the self-restraint to keep from meddling with them while they do it.

13. The Law of Reproduction
It takes a leader to raise a leader. All great leaders are a result of a handful of great leaders and mentors.
Exercise - if you push a person down, you go down with him.
To practice the law of reproduction - become a better leader first, see the big picture, attract potential leaders and create an eagle environment (cast a vision, offer incentives, encourage creativity, allow risks and provide accountability).

14. The Law of Buy-in
People buy into the leaders first, then their vision. It's you they buy. Maxwell gives the example of Gandhi. Once people buy into someone, they are willing to give his vision a chance. In the end your success is measured by your ability to take the people where they need to go.

15. The Law of Victory
Leaders find a way for the team to win. Again, result-focussed people who are actively looking for ways to gain an advantage.
Churchill's lone stand against Germany is a fine example. He did not negotiate. He also did not compromise on the only option - victory - in the darkest of times.
The three components of victory - unity of vision, diversity of skills and a leader dedicated to victory and raising players to their potential.,

16. The Law of the Big MO
Momentum is the leader's best friend. Create and sustain momentum. Never lose it.
Maxwell cites the example of James Escalante who was trying to turn a school that was closing down to turn around by getting some students to pass a Calculus exam and how he builds momentum slowly and finally turns it around. There is a movie called 'Stand and Deliver' on this story. Sounds interesting.
To build momentum Maxwell says rely on preparation and motivation.  It takes a leader to create momentum. Momentum really is a leader's best friend.

17. The Law of Priorities
Leaders understand that activity is not accomplishment. Results are important. To prioritise he says use Pareto's principle to get maximum return for your effort. His second guideline is the three Rs - what is required, what gives the greatest return and what brings the greatest reward.
Maxwell says that leaders never grow to a point where they no longer need to prioritise.

18. The Law of Sacrifice
A leader must give up to go up. The higher the level of leadership you want to reach, the greater the sacrifices you have to make. The team comes first. The example of how Chrysler's chairman in the 1980s, John Riccardo, sacrificed himself for the better of the organisation by bringing on Lee Iacocca to turn the struggling company around. Iacocca also took salary cuts (once working on a dollar a month, gave up weekends etc) to pull the company out of the red. All great leaders swallow their pride and do what is right for the organisation.
"For everything you have missed, you have gained something else; and for everything you gain, you lose something.' - Emerson

19. The Law of Timing
When to lead is as important as what to do and where to go. The example of Jimmy Carter who became President thanks to sheer timing.
"There comes a special moment in everyone's life, a moment for which that person was born. That special opportunity, when he seizes it, will fulfill his mission - a mission for which he is uniquely qualified. In that moment, he finds greatness. it is his finest hour.'

20. The Law of Explosive Growth
To add growth, lead followers - to multiply, lead leaders. The leader's math is that when you lead leaders, you automatically lead their followers thereby causing explosive growth.
Add ten followers and you have the power of ten people. Add ten leaders and you have the power of ten leaders and leaders they influence.

21. The Law of Legacy
A leader's lasting value is measured by succession. The organisation should move on without a blip if the leader leaves suddenly. Maxwell cites the example of Roberto Goizueta who was Chairman and Chief Executive of Coca-Cola and whose sudden demise did not result in catastrophe for the company. He had prepared the second in line well in advance.
Maxwell says that such leaders lead with a long-term view, create a leadership culture, pay the price today to groom. value team over individual and walk away from the organisation with integrity.
good leaders will be judged by how well the people and the organisation did after they are gone. Their lasting values will be measured by succession.

Immense sense. A must-read for leaders. Thanks Vinod bhai for gifting me this book.